Very often parents forget that they participate in the process of socialization and education of the child. Then it can happen that parent criticize the children and why they go to school If they’re not learn something, and why the professor doesn’t teach them anything. Or, instead of the blame for the bad success of the child transfer to a child, they foist it on teachers. Huge mistake! Why?
The responsibility for the education of the child is divided between parents and school
Well, this is because of the responsibility for education, parents transfer solely to teachers. Yes, children spend several hours at the school, but the rest of the time they spend at home, surrounded by family members. That’s why parents have a crucial impact on the education of their own child and not the teacher.
Instead, parents to help their children to learn, they left it to their parents (i.e. grandparents who are forgot too much or curriculum is changed a lot from their time). Instead of the focus on the education of their children, they are tired after the work and them is much easier to say to the child, “go watch the TV!” or “go play on the computer!”.
Of course, this behavior of parents is somewhat understandable. They are tired from work and they don’t have a lot of patience (but also knowledge) to help their child. Instead, the parents hire a professor to teach their child. This decision has certain advantages but also disadvantages. The advantage is that the child (if it really motivated) can learn something that is missed or it doesn’t understand. However, the downside is that parents don’t pay enough attention to the education of their child.
Why it is important for the child to adopt the concept of responsibility for their actions?
The very concept of greater rights of the child than the rights of parents towards the child is not bad but if it doesn’t follow the concept of responsibility and duty of the child to other people, then it’s very likely that we will have an irresponsible, arrogant and naughty child.
Also, children who are not accustomed to accepting responsibilities, they would later be irresponsible in life. Think rationally: do the man who as a child wasn’t learned the concept of responsibility, will be responsible for yourself, your family, coworkers and the people around him? Unlikely…